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Why African Aunties Are The Real Influencers

Before social media made influence a profession, African aunties already had it down to an art. If you think content creation is a flex, try surviving a family function under an auntie’s gaze. With no camera crew, brand deals, or curated feeds, these women have been shaping trends, narratives, and entire family dynamics without even trying. The Look that Launches a Thousand Judgements It starts with the stare. That slow, calculated glance African aunties give when you walk into a room, half inspection, half silent judgment. Congratulations, you’ve been officially noticed if you’ve ever been on the receiving end of that gaze. And if an auntie notices you, it means you exist. Their influence begins with presence. Not the kind measured in likes or views, but the kind that stops conversations mid-sentence. The kind that walks into a party dressed in a flamboyant Bubu gown, gele perched high like a crown, heels clicking with authority. They don’t announce their arrival as they are the announcement. The Original Curators of Style While influencers rely on filters and flash sales, aunties move culture with a few well-placed accessories. Before oversized sunglasses became a fashion statement, they were already a staple at church services and weekend owambes. Aunties have been swinging those structured handbags fashionistas now flaunt with flair since before it was cool.   From their nails to their perfumes, everything is intentional. A full face beat, jewelry that jingles with confidence, and a walk that says, “I’ve seen things you can’t even imagine.” They were soft-launching influencer aesthetics before Instagram even existed. Owambe Icons Nowhere is their star power more obvious than at Nigerian parties. Aunties’ headline owambes. Draped in coordinated aso-ebi, every outfit a designer’s dream, they command the dance floor like royalty. Hands in the air, rings glinting under party lights, nails flawless as they signal the DJ to “play that track again!” Their movements are precise. Their expressions are Immaculate. They throw money like confetti, never losing rhythm, never letting their gele slip, not even once. And if you ever catch an auntie dancing in slow motion, eyes closed, in pure bliss, you’re witnessing someone fully in her power. She is the vibe. She is the moment.   Ojude Oba: The Met Gala of the West Every year in Ijebu land, aunties transform into full-blown fashion icons for Ojude Oba, a celebration of Yoruba royalty and heritage. It’s a cultural spectacle. Outfits coordinated down to the last bead. Color themes chosen with the precision of a royal court. Synchronized walking, regal glances, and competition-level posing for photos. This is not just showing up. This is legacy on display. And the peer review always ruthless. One head-to-toe glance from a fellow auntie can determine whether your tailor gets another job or a stern warning. Unsolicited Advice, Certified Impact Their style might make you stare, but their words stay. Aunties don’t need microphones or megaphones. A single “hmm” can quiet a room. A raised eyebrow can trigger an existential crisis. And when they start with “Come, let me talk to you…” you know a life lesson or lecture is loading. Yes, their advice can sting. “See your mate, she’s already married with two kids and a house in Lekki.” But wrapped in sarcasm, wisdom, and just the right amount of roasting, is often some real-world truth. They’ve lived through wars, recessions, heartbreaks, and homecomings. Their influence isn’t always soft, but it’s almost always rooted in care. The Life of Every Gathering Aunties are the heartbeat of African events. Be it weddings, funerals, naming ceremonies, or Sunday lunches, they bring the energy. They’ll laugh, gossip, dance, and subtly plant the seed of matchmaking ideas. Remove them from any event, and you’ll feel the absence in the air, like the music suddenly lost its beat. And yes, they can be a handful, opinionated, dramatic, even overbearing. But that’s part of the charm. They are layered, vibrant, and complex. Equal parts pressure and presence. Love and legend. Legacy Over Likes So while social media influencers chase algorithms and analytics, African aunties continue doing what they’ve always done: showing up, showing out, and shaping culture. No ring lights. No brand deals. Just pure, unfiltered influence. With digital clout in present times, maybe it’s time we logged off a little and learned from the original influencers. Because aunties don’t just set trends; they leave legacies.

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Fashion vs. Style: What Are We Really Wearing?

Every day, we wake up and choose what to wear. Some people stand in front of a closet full of options and still feel like they have nothing to wear. Others grab a basic tee, jeans, a scarf, and suddenly magic has been made. Why does that happen? Because there’s a difference between fashion and style and while we use those words interchangeably, they are not the same. But let’s not get ahead of ourselves. First, let’s unpack what each really means. The Fast Fashion Trap Before we define anything, we need to start with where most of us live; in the thick of fast fashion. One day your social feed is pushing clean girl minimalism: slicked-back buns, beige tones, delicate gold jewelry. Next week is the Mob wife energy: big fur, big sunglasses, big attitude. Micro-trends rise and collapse at such a speed that fashion feels less like a creative force and more like a treadmill — always running, rarely arriving. The thrill of the new wears thin when you’re constantly shedding pieces that felt essential just two months ago. It’s no wonder so many of us feel overwhelmed. Fashion, in this context, becomes noise. But it didn’t start that way. Fashion as an Industry and Invitation Fashion is the system. It’s commerce and culture. It’s the creative eye of runway designers and the commercial machine that translates their visions into affordable looks in record time. It’s the reason Lagos Fashion Week draws global eyes, and why Dior stages collections in Marrakech or Dakar to borrow relevance, rhythm, and beauty. Fashion is the world’s wardrobe, but it’s also a mirror. It reflects the moment, the economy, the mood and the power dynamics. It says: This is what’s in. Are you in? It’s why your social feed last year was filled with moto and knee-high boots, cargo pants, sweater over shoulders, and now everyone’s wearing bandana silk scarves. It’s the newness that fuels our curiosity and creativity, but also our constant need to keep up. But in its chase for novelty, fashion can forget people. Especially those who don’t or refuse to fit the mold. This is where style begins to push back. Style as the Voice that Pushes Through Style isn’t seasonal, it’s personal. It’s not just what you wear, it’s why and how you wear it. It’s when African women tye their headwraps in a way their mothers taught them.   It’s the African creative who pairs second hand blazers with printed trousers, breaking every rule and starting their own. It’s the auntie who’s had the same pair of leather mules since 1996 and still wears them better than anyone else. Two people can wear the same white shirt. One tucks it into cigarette pants with loafers and a leather sling bag. The other leaves it open over a kitenge-print slip dress and stacks beaded necklaces. Same outfit, entirely different identities. Style doesn’t need a trend cycle. Style lives in those subtle choices: the roll of a cuff, the clash of patterns, the reworking of something old. It comes from knowing who you are or at least being curious enough to find out. Fashion vs Style: Can You Have One Without the Other? Absolutely. You can be fashionable without having style, we see it all the time. You can also have incredible style without ever chasing fashion. Think of people who wear thrifted gems, rework hand-me-downs, or repeat outfits and still turn heads because their clothes speak for them, not over them. When young people in Accra remix agbadas with sneakers, or drape kente with denim jackets, they’re not just being creative, they’re styling memory into modernity. Fashion is the canvas. Style is the brush. Finding Your Style in the Scroll Era So how do you develop style in a world that sells fashion by the minute? Start small. Don’t shop only, but study along and that means paying attention – What colors bring you joy? What fabrics make you feel grounded? What silhouettes make you stand taller? Explore, make mistakes, repeat outfits, and break your own rules. You don’t need a full wardrobe refresh. You need a relationship with your wardrobe. Try this: style a single dress five ways. With sneakers and a straw tote for errands. With block heels and brass earrings for dinner. With a headwrap and bangles for Sunday service. Suddenly, you’re not wearing an outfit — you’re telling a story. Style isn’t about having more. It’s about seeing more and more possibilities in less. So, What Are We Really Wearing? The debate between fashion and style will always exist. Some say fashion inspires style. Others believe style renders fashion irrelevant. But the real question is what matters more to you? Is it staying on trend, or staying true to yourself? Is it about wearing what’s new, or wearing what’s you?We’ll leave you with this: If you couldn’t buy a single new item this year, how would you style what you already have? Written by Kemi Adedoyin 

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Before the Shutter Clicks: African Photography In Its Own Light

There was a time, not so long ago, when if you saw an African in a photo, you could bet someone foreign was behind the camera. A missionary, a journalist, or a tourist with a zoom lens and a list of “authentic” moments to collect—famine in focus, dust in the light, smiling school children, every face perfectly grateful. But rewind further to the present African corner studios, where people posed like royalty against painted backdrops, dressed in their Sunday best, beaming with a pride that needed no translation. Those images weren’t for outsiders. They were for us. This is how the camera changed hands and what happened when we started telling our own African stories through the lens. Photography in Africa was never just a matter of pointing and shooting. It was a question of who held the frame and why. Studios, in the early days, were temples of becoming. They were sites of deliberate self-invention. A young man in a double-breasted coat. A woman with kohl-lined eyes and a radio on her lap. Backdrops of palm trees, cars, waterfalls. All imagined futures. These portraits weren’t vanity; they were evidence. We were there and we mattered. We existed outside the colonial gaze. Over time, the studio became a casualty of speed. Instant culture—disposable photos, selfies, reels—changed the ritual. And now, we can see the change. Young photographers are restoring the studio’s magic, this time with LED lights, projection mapping, and fabric sourced from grandmothers’ trunks.  The Fight for Self-Representation Photography has long been used to define us. The colonial photo was surveillance disguised as curiosity. The aid agency photo, a form of propaganda. And even now, photo contests and international exhibitions often reward one aesthetic: struggle with a hint of hope. But African photographers today are fighting to turn the lens inward, reclaiming the right to complexity. Self-representation demands that we look beyond what’s expected. That we linger in boredom. That we dignify mess. That we challenge the algorithm’s thirst for suffering. From the Margins to the Center Twenty years ago, there were fewer names, fewer platforms, and far less interest. Many of our greats were dismissed as hobbyists or artisans. Yet they built archives. They captured ceremonies, conflicts, and quiet moments with a consistency that whispered: one day, someone will need to remember. We remember, but we also reinvent. The evolution of African photography is not a straight line. It’s a conversation between generations. J.D. ‘Okhai Ojeikere’s sculptural documentation of Nigerian hairstyles now speaks to Laetitia Ky’s self-portraits made with hair.  Seydou Keïta’s Malian elegance walks beside the surreal experiments of Prince Gyasi, who paints his images in saturated candy tones. The tools have changed. Digital cameras replaced film. iPhones replaced digital. But what hasn’t changed is intent to witness, to question and to protect. The Personal as Political What’s the role of cultural identity in all this? It’s everything. A photograph isn’t neutral. Every choice—lens, subject, background, even what’s cropped out—says something. And when that photographer is African, the stakes are higher. Our identities are layered: linguistic, tribal, urban, diasporic. Our cultures are fluid, but they carry memory like a spine. Photography allows that memory to breathe and to find new form. Whether it’s documenting Maasai rituals, queer fashion in Kampala, or the fading blues of indigo dye pits in Kano, African photographers are mapping a continent. Against the Global Glare But with recognition comes friction. African photographers still face challenges in the global art and media ecosystem. We’re often included as tokens, the African perspective, in panels curated by outsiders. Grants come with invisible strings. Publications want our work but not our critique. Our images are licensed, exhibited, and praised but are we heard enough? There is also the burden of representation. If one Ghanaian photographer makes it, the world thinks they understand West Africa. If a Nigerian wins a prize, others must wait their turn. This can seem quite unfair. And yet, despite this, the work persists. Photographers build their own festivals like LagosPhoto. They teach workshops in townships. They print zines. They shoot weddings, then shoot editorials. They keep going. Because they have to. Not because it’s lucrative. Not always because it’s seen. But because the image is a form of survival. Seven African Photographers You Should Know In this renaissance of African photography, several voices have risen with singular vision of shaping not just how Africa is seen, but how Africa sees itself: Zanele Muholi (South Africa): Visual activist documenting Black queer identity with fierce intimacy and elegance. Malick Sidibéi (Mali): The “Eye of Bamako,” celebrated for capturing Malian youth culture in the 1960s and ’70s. Yagazie Emezi(Nigeria): Known for striking photo essays on identity, trauma, and womanhood across African landscapes. Mous Lamrabat (Morocco): A master of contradiction, blending Western symbols with Moroccan tradition in dreamlike fashion. Sarah Waiswa (Uganda): Explores displacement, beauty, and belonging through soft, thoughtful portraiture.. Prince Gyasi (Ghana): Redefines visual storytelling with hyper-saturated images that blend surrealism and social commentary. Aïda Muluneh (Ethiopia): Fuses traditional aesthetics with futuristic vision, using bold colors to discuss African dignity and self-determination. These artists are not just photographers—they’re translators of experience. Each frame is a dialect of memory, protest, play, and possibility. We Are the Frame Now In the end, photography in Africa has become something no one anticipated. it has become a conversation we are having with ourselves. We are no longer image subjects. We are image makers. We are the glitch in the narrative. The color correction. The uncaptioned moment. The memory that doesn’t fade. We photograph not just to be seen but to see ourselves. To archive the truth, to question beauty, to hold space for everything that came before and everything still unfolding. Before the shutter clicks, there is that sacred second where everything aligns. The African story, the light, the intent.   Written by Kemi Adedoyin 

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The African Cowrie and Its Many Lives

They say if you carry a cowrie, wealth will follow. So will love. So will favor. But in the same breath, some will warn: hide it from your pastor. The African cowrie—smooth, curved, mysterious—is a small object with a massive reputation. Found in the oceans, worn in braids, tucked into purses, used in prayers, feared in myths, cowries have travelled far, both physically and spiritually, across the African continent and deep into the soul of its cultures. But where do they come from, and why do they still stir such powerful emotions? Origins of a Shell Soaked in Symbolism Cowries are marine mollusk shells, most commonly from the species Cypraea moneta. Though found in the Indian and Pacific Oceans, they made their way into African societies centuries ago, riding on the waves of Indian Ocean trade routes. Arab traders, Portuguese merchants, and East African sailors brought them ashore not as trinkets, but as currency. And they caught on quickly. Historians believe that as early as the 14th century, cowries had become a widely accepted medium of exchange across West Africa. In the old Mali Empire, one could buy a goat, a bag of salt, or a bride with strings of cowries. But the shell was never just about commerce. Power, Protection, and the Pulse of the Spirit World In Yoruba cosmology, cowries were more than money; they were eyes. Eyes of the Orishas. Conduits of communication between mortals and the divine. Babalawos, the spiritual priests of Ifá, cast cowries like dice to divine futures. Aje, powerful feminine forces associated with creation and destruction, were said to be protectors of the cowrie’s mysteries. It’s this connection to the metaphysical that shaped the cowrie’s dual reputation. To some, it became sacred. To others, especially under colonial Christianity, it was something else. Today, many still associate cowries with divination practices, thanks in part to Nollywood portrayals where a string of cowries often signals that someone is in touch with “dark powers.” But this fear is largely born of misunderstanding. To the Yoruba, Igbo, and even the Akan of Ghana, some of the most prominent cowrie users historically, these shells are not evil. They are energy. They are the essence. A Symbol Now Flaunted Over time, as colonial rule imposed new currencies and cultural systems, the literal use of cowries as money declined. But their symbolic value only deepened. Where once they bought wares, today they adorn waists, necks, ears, and foreheads. Cowries have made a stunning comeback in African fashion, worn by both spiritualists and stylists. Braided into hair, stitched into agbadas, looped onto anklets. They carry a silent but confident nod to heritage. Cowries have become the aesthetic language of African pride. They’re seen on contemporary beadwork, minimalist jewelry, and even avant-garde fashion lines that reimagine African royalty. But with popularity comes dilution. Can the Cowrie Stay Sacred in a Mass-Market World? The resurgence of cowries in mainstream culture begs a vital question: Can a spiritual object survive commodification? While natural cowries are still harvested sustainably in many regions, mass production—especially of plastic imitations—has raised sustainability concerns. The deeper issue, however, lies in the cultural flattening. What happens when a sacred object becomes a fashion accessory stripped of its history? To keep its integrity intact, cultural educators, artisans, and spiritual leaders are pushing back—hosting workshops, leading storytelling sessions, and insisting that context matters. That it’s not just what you wear, but how and why. Why Cowries Speak to the Feminine Soul The cowrie’s slit-like opening, its smooth belly, its protective curve—these are not just anatomical features. In many African societies, they’re read as symbols of the womb. The feminine. The origin of life. This is why cowries are often worn by women trying to conceive, or sewn into fertility belts. It’s why they appear in dances celebrating womanhood, in initiation rituals, in goddess altars. The cowrie is the quiet symbol of creation, intuition, and inner power. To wear it is to call on ancestral memory. A Legacy That Refuses to FallSome say the cowrie “died” when coins replaced it. But that’s far from the truth. The cowrie simply changed clothes. It went from currency to crown, from market to meaning. Yes, its reputation is complicated. But perhaps that’s what makes it so compelling. It’s not just a shell. It’s a mirror. It reflects what we see in ourselves—our history, our fears, our beauty, our power. And if you’ve ever felt drawn to one, found one on the sand and kept it, even if you didn’t know why, then maybe it’s calling you too.So, what does the cowrie mean to you? A charm? A crown? Written by Kemi Adedoyin

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Our Bodies Were Books Before We Had Pages

Once, our skin was scripture and once, the ink was language.Before paper, before politics, before photos could freeze memory, the African body was our canvas. A site of story and a vessel of spirit.  Before tattoos became Instagram filters and modern markers of rebellion or art, they were sacred scripts etched on skin as symbols of survival, lineage, status, and spirit. Across African cultures, tattoos and scarifications were not simply decorations; they were declarations of who you were, where you came from, who you belonged to. And often, who you might become. Tattoos were the truth. The art of marking the skin was known by different names, executed through different tools, and rooted in diverse traditions but its purpose was uncannily shared: to remember, to signify and to speak. In ancient Nubia and Kemet (Egypt), tattoos were found on female mummies dating back as early as 2000 BCE. Dots and dash-like patterns along the abdomen and thighs were believed to protect women during childbirth — an amulet worn not around the neck, but beneath the skin. In West Africa, the Yoruba called it ila, the Hausa, zane. Among the Amazigh (Berber) women of North Africa, facial tattoos in geometric arrangements spoke of identity and fertility, a visual code passed down from mother to daughter. The Dinka of South Sudan wore forehead marks after initiation; the Fulani, delicate curves that framed the eyes like poetry. Each culture had its grammar, its aesthetics, its rites. But the skin was always more than flesh. It was an archive. When the Skin Was a Passport In precolonial Africa, tattoos (and scarifications, often interlinked) served roles far deeper than aesthetics. They were passports, immediately communicating your ethnicity, family lineage, social class, or spiritual calling. Some markings were tribal, others medicinal. Some healed spiritual afflictions. Some repelled evil spirits. Others marked rites of passage: from girlhood to womanhood, boyhood to warriorhood. To be marked was to be seen. To be unmarked, sometimes, was to be unmade. Initiation into adulthood often came with pain not to glorify suffering, but to symbolise inner transformation. These markings weren’t about trends. They were about thresholds. They chronicled a journey. The pain had meaning, the meaning gave purpose, and the purpose bound one to community. It was not narcissistic individualism. It was communal symbolism. Then Came the Silence Colonialism rewrote the African body. Missionaries labelled our marks “pagan,” “barbaric,” “demonic.” Colonial administrators outlawed or discouraged traditional body art as backward, replacing skin-storytelling with stitched uniforms, Western names, and sanitized ideologies of the civilized. Churches preached salvation through erasure. Mosques, too, in some regions, warned against body modifications, even when centuries of practice said otherwise. With time, many tattooing and scarification traditions disappeared. Some forcibly, others voluntarily, as younger generations, seeking upward mobility, were taught to be ashamed of their cultural expressions. In urban centres, scarified faces were replaced with powdered ones. Adorned bodies became covered bodies. Identity became something to be hidden not worn. But the skin, ever loyal, remembers. Tattoos never left Africa. They simply changed form. No longer bound by initiation rites or community sanction, the modern African tattoo is deeply personal. It might be a phoenix, a child’s name, a favorite quote, or a reclaimed ancestral symbol,  a lover’s birthdate. For some, it’s pure artistry. For others, it’s healing. Some do it to rebel; others, to reconnect. They say, I own my body now. I choose my story. Today’s Ink Tattoos never left Africa. They simply changed form. No longer bound by initiation rites or community sanction, the modern African tattoo is deeply personal. It might be a phoenix, a child’s name, a favorite quote, or a reclaimed ancestral symbol,  a lover’s birthdate. For some, it’s pure artistry. For others, it’s healing. Some do it to rebel; others, to reconnect. They say, I own my body now. I choose my story. The Modern Tension Between Sacred and Sinful Despite the boom, tattoos remain controversial in many African societies. Ink is still taboo. Many parents view tattoos as symbols of recklessness, criminality, or lost morality. In conservative households, a visible tattoo can cost someone respect, employment, or marriage prospects. The Modern Tension Between Sacred and Sinful Despite the boom, tattoos remain controversial in many African societies. Ink is still taboo. Many parents view tattoos as symbols of recklessness, criminality, or lost morality. In conservative households, a visible tattoo can cost someone respect, employment, or marriage prospects. The stigma is often less about culture and more about colonial conditioning. What was once traditional is now labelled “un-African.” What was once sacred is now suspect. But this generation is asking difficult, necessary questions: Why are our ancestral marks considered defiance, while Western tattoos are seen as cool? Why do we fear what once gave us identity? Who decides what African looks like? Ink on Skin as Memory Tattoos are not new to Africa. What’s new is the language of autonomy around them. Today’s African youth are reinterpreting old symbols with new meaning, sometimes spiritual, sometimes aesthetic, sometimes political. For queer Africans, tattoos may signal chosen family. For feminist Africans, they may mark bodily autonomy. For diasporic Africans, they may signify a return to roots long buried. Tattoos were never just about beauty. They were about belief, belonging and about memory made flesh. Even now, beneath the skin of modernity, the ancient urge to mark meaning remains. Africa’s skin has never been blank. And its stories will not fade. Written by Kemi Adedoyin

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My Father’s Shadow: A New Dawn for African Cinema at Cannes

Cannes is the heartbeat of world cinema. For decades, it has been the place where stories are immortalized. Films that cross borders, challenge perceptions, and speak to the core of human experience have walked its red carpet, leaving their mark on global storytelling. This year, a new scene was written in the annals of cinema. My Father’s Shadow, directed by Akinola Davies Jr. and produced by Funmbi Ogunbanwo, became the first Nigerian film to be part of the Official Selection at Cannes, screening in the prestigious Un Certain Regard category. It’s not just a milestone, it’s a turning point for African cinema. The Prestige of Cannes The Cannes Film Festival is the world’s most prestigious gathering of filmmakers and dreamers. It’s where legends are born, where films like Pulp Fiction, Blue is the Warmest Color, and Parasite found their way to global recognition. It is about storytelling that matters. For African filmmakers, the road to Cannes has often been distant; glimpses of our stories flickering at the edges but rarely taking center stage. My Father’s Shadow changes the narrative. Funmbi Ogunbanwo: Telling Stories with Intention At the heart of this moment is Funmbi Ogunbanwo, who enjoys the process of something bigger than her. She has always been intentional about people and the stories she tells, choosing narratives that reflect the strength and complexity of Nigerian identity.  In her interview with Afrique Noire Magazine, she spoke passionately about the importance of storytelling from home. “Home is where impact is,” she said, calling on the African diaspora to remember that their voices matter, that their stories belong not just abroad but at home where change is rooted. Ogunbanwo’s vision goes beyond just making films. For too long, African stories have been boxed into tales of struggle and survival. She wants the world to see the richness, the ambition, the memory, and the resilience that define African life. With My Father’s Shadow, she proves that our stories can be global without losing their soul. The Story of My Father’s Shadow My Father’s Shadow is a poignant exploration of memory, identity, and the longing for connection. Inspired by the real-life experiences of Wale Davies and his brother, who lost their father at a young age, the film dives into the ache of growing up with questions that are never answered. Who was he? What did he believe in? What kind of man was he? These unspoken questions became the soul of the story. Davies imagined what it would be like to spend just one more day with their father, a single moment to bridge the distance that time and loss had created. The film is set against the backdrop of the 1993 Nigerian elections, a time marked by political tension and hope for change. This historical context is woven delicately into the narrative, reflecting how family-saga and political upheaval often walk hand in hand. Lagos, with its chaos and charm, is a living, breathing character that shapes the story. https://youtu.be/WoiVcFxcpak?si=W9g6LzEEcBrrZcOh A Landmark for African Cinema The significance of My Father’s Shadow at Cannes is monumental. It signals to the world that African stories are not only valid but necessary. It is a testament that Nigerian cinema has truly come of age—a sentiment echoed by Prince Baba Agba, cultural advisor to President Tinubu. It is a pivotal moment for African film. It signals to the world that African stories are necessary. For the African film landscape, this is validation. It is a moment that tells filmmakers across the continent that their stories are powerful enough to stand on the world’s most prestigious stage. It breaks barriers and sets a precedent, opening the path for more African voices to be heard. My Father’s Shadow is a beacon of possibility, a whisper to every storyteller on the continent that the world is ready to listen and that our stories are worthy of the brightest lights. Enjoy the full conversation here on YouTube & you can now listen here on Spotify YouTube Link  https://youtu.be/wFqHAZZJKqQ?si=RMJYxTxC40nJVkEh Spotify https://open.spotify.com/episode/7MLrtowHEXN9UU2k6ULI5h?si=745Fwd8tR0aBogHbrzBC8g Producer & Directors  https://www.instagram.com/akinoladaviesjr?igsh=azI5bXY4aWo2bzBj Akinola Davies Jr https://www.instagram.com/kingxdavies?igsh=NzRwMmgxMnU0bHBr Wale  Davies  https://www.instagram.com/funmbi_o?igsh=YzBqNDZpOWVmYm1p Funmbi Ogunbanwo For https://www.instagram.com/wearefatherland?igsh=MXZnOTBhaDJwbHB1cQ== Father Land 

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The Red Crown: Himba Women’s Hair

What does it mean to wear your history in your hair? For the Himba women of northern Namibia, beauty is a language spoken in red ochre, passed from mother to daughter, and sculpted into every braid. In the dusty, sunburnt lands of northern Namibia, between rocky hills and winding rivers, live the Himba people, a semi-nomadic community known for their resilience, grace, and striking appearance. Among them, the Himba women stand out not just for their beauty, but for their proud display of tradition, carried on their skin, in their dress, and most famously, in their hair. The red-plated hair of the Himba women is a living symbol. A message written in earth, time, and memory. It tells a story of identity, pride, survival, and womanhood passed down from one generation to the next. Who Are the Himba? The Himba are an indigenous people of Namibia, mainly found in the Kunene region, near the Angolan border. They are pastoralists, which means they live closely with their livestock, especially cattle and goats. Their days are shaped by the rhythm of nature. They live in huts made from mud and dung, sleep under wide skies, and follow traditions that have stayed largely untouched for hundreds of years. But beyond geography and history, it is their visual expression, especially their hair that has come to symbolize their enduring strength. A Signature of Himba Womanhood What captures most people’s attention when they see the Himba women for the first time is their hair. Thick, red, sculpted locks that look like they’ve been shaped by fire and earth. These are not wigs or braids from a salon. These are carefully built hairstyles, coated in a rich red paste called otjize—a mixture of butterfat, red ochre (iron-rich stone ground into powder), and sometimes fragrant herbs or tree resins. The women apply otjize every day. It covers their hair and their entire bodies, giving their skin a warm, reddish glow. It protects them from the harsh sun, acts as a moisturizer in the dry desert climate, and keeps insects away. But its meaning goes far beyond physical use. The red color represents the earth, blood, and life itself. It is sacred. It is spiritual. Hair is not just hair to the Himba. It’s a marker of identity and a sign of where a woman is in her life. Himba hairstyles follow clear rules: 1.Young girls wear two plaits hanging forward over their faces, called ozondato. 2.Teenage girls start adding more braids and often begin applying otjize. 3.Married women wear thick, long, red-plated locks that fall over their shoulders, sometimes covering the face slightly. These are called ozondato as well, but in a more elaborate form. 4.Mothers wear a headpiece made of sheepskin called an erembe, which is attached to their braided hair. It’s a symbol of fertility and motherhood. 5.Elder women or widows may cover their heads or leave their hair natural, often signaling a different stage of life. Even the shape and number of braids have meaning. They show your social role, your family’s wealth, your marital status, and more. In Himba society, you can “read” a woman’s life story through her hairstyle. The Art of Maintenance: A Daily Ritual Keeping the hair beautiful and healthy is a daily ritual. Himba women don’t bathe with water in the Western sense, especially because water is scarce in their environment. Instead, they perform a kind of smoke bath. They burn special wood, often from aromatic trees, inside a clay pot, and once it produces enough smoke, they sit over it and let the smoke cleanse their skin and body. This is how they “bathe.” When it comes to their hair, the women take their time. They mix fresh otjize paste and gently coat their braids. Sometimes, other women help. It is an intimate, bonding experience; mother to daughter, sister to sister, elder to younger. It is a shared practice that keeps their traditions alive. Some of the braids are made using hair extensions from other women in the tribe, animal hair, or even woven wool. But the otjize paste always covers it all, binding it into a single, sculpted form. The Meaning Behind the Red To outsiders, the red hair might seem like just a bold fashion choice. But to the Himba, it means much more. The red ochre is tied to the idea of kaoko, a connection to the earth, to ancestors, and to the spirit of the land. The Himba believe in a spiritual life force that flows through everything: the cattle, the trees, the soil, and the human body. Covering themselves in red ochre is a way of aligning with this force. It’s a way of honoring life. Symbols of Cultural Resistance Today, Himba women are seen as symbols of cultural resistance. While much of the world pushes for modernization, assimilation, and change, they hold fast to their roots. They walk through dusty villages and open markets dressed in leather skirts, beaded necklaces, and bare chests unapologetically themselves. As the world rushes forward, the Himba women boldly remind us that our traditions are enough. That our way of being our skin, our hair, our rituals hold deep meaning. They remind us that African beauty is not borrowed, not bought. It is built, strand by strand, from memory, meaning, and the dust of home. This balance between tradition and modern life is difficult. It raises questions about choice, identity, and the future. But one thing remains: the red hair continues to speak.

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The Dandy Met Gala

Every year, the Met Gala is a dazzling ode to fashion, art, and culture, but 2025 was different. It wasn’t just another glamorous evening in the Untitled Sky of the Metropolitan Museum of Art. It was a cultural milestone. The theme, “Superfine: Tailoring Black Style,” was a sweeping tribute to Black fashion, identity, and the enduring legacy of Black dandyism. This wasn’t just fashion for fashion’s sake but heritage, defiance, and elegance in motion. Black Elegance on Center Stage Inspired by Monica L. Miller’s influential book Slaves to Fashion, this year’s exhibit broke boundaries. For the first time in 22 years, the focus was solely on menswear, but not just any menswear. This was Black suiting reimagined through a dozen themes: Ownership, Look, Disguise, Freedom, Presence, Cosmopolitanism, and more. Each room in the exhibition felt like a different heartbeat of the diaspora. The accompanying dress code, “Tailored for You,” wasn’t just about custom fits; it was an invitation to bring your full, unfiltered self. To wear a story. As co-chair Pharrell Williams put it: “You throw it on Sunday after working all week.” And that was the spirit. Effortless cool born from effort. Faith meets finesse. Joy meets struggle. Inside the World of the Black Dandy So what is Black Dandyism, really? Think velvet blazers, ornate brooches, and wide-brimmed hats. Think of walking into a room like it owes you a round of applause. At its heart, it’s about style that says: I see your rules and I’ll raise you some silk brocade and a killer hat.  Inspired by icons including British dandy Beau Brummell, who once said, “Don’t talk about your clothes, let your clothes do the talking,” the Black Dandy is intentional. A Night of African Creatives What made this year’s Met Gala particularly noteworthy was the undeniable presence of African designers and artists.  Patience Torlowei, the Nigerian designer known for storytelling through textiles, brought a gown that shimmered with tradition and avant-garde flair. Ozwald Boateng, Ghanaian-British tailoring legend, proved once again that heritage and haute couture go hand in hand. Agbobly, the Togo-born innovator, married West African weaving with modern silhouettes. From Iké Udé to Paradis of Côte d’Ivoire, African fashion wasn’t just included; it was central. And the stars? They wore the continent with pride. Tyla, South Africa’s breakout star, floated down the carpet in a structured white Jacquemus gown styled by the iconic Law Roach. Minimalism, meet majesty. Tems wore Ankara like armor, while Burna Boy, styled in a bespoke look by Ozwald Boateng, redefined red carpet suiting with cultural fire. One of the most striking looks came from Brian Tyree Henry, who appeared in a maroon suit with a regal brocade cape by Orange Culture, the Nigerian label known for gender-fluid tailoring. His walk? A love letter to Black royalty. Savannah James stunned in a striped corset and fishtail skirt by Hanifa, a silhouette that echoed tradition and power. And then came Diana Ross, styled in bold by Ugo Mozie, proving that the legends never miss. It wasn’t just a red carpet; it was a parade of pride. The Details Were the Drama Because sometimes, it’s not just what you wear, it’s how. Khaby Lame wore time like jewelry, a waistcoat dotted with vintage watch faces, stitched by BOSS, styled by Ugo Mozie. Every tick was tailored. Ayo Edebiri showed up in coral power. Her Ferragamo look fused Edo royalty with downtown edge — beaded, belted, unforgettable. Adut Akech shimmered like starlight in motion, 25,550 Swarovski crystals on a gilet mini and feather-lined tailcoat. Precision met poetry. Anok Yai turned heads in a black brocade bodice with optical sleeves by Thom Browne, part suit, part sorcery. Chimamanda blazed in scarlet Prabal Gurung, crowned in feathers and fire. A whole statement, no footnotes needed. The Power of Intentional Dressing To center Black culture on this global stage was to right a historical imbalance. It signaled a shift from appropriation to appreciation, from marginalization to celebration. It was an acknowledgment that Black fashion is a foundation. Even Anna Wintour, the longstanding Met Gala chair, has seen the fashion industry undergo significant changes over the years, but this year, she is inspired by how much it means to the black community. Her take on how Men’s fashion has changed in the last two decades: “It’s become so much more imaginative, risk-taking, fearless, and fun, which is what the exhibition is all about,” she said.  The 2025 Met Gala marked a pivotal moment. From the Silk & Sound Choir’s opening to the final flashbulbs, the night announced that Black fashion isn’t a one-off. It’s a turning point. The message was clear: the fashion is tailored for us.

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It’s More than Skincare: A Blueprint for Ethical Beauty

Written by: Oluwakemi Adedoyin What if beauty wasn’t just about glowing skin but about fairness, culture, and sustainability? What if every drop of oil and every dollop of butter had a special origin story; one that empowers communities, sustains traditions, and celebrates Black beauty all over the world? Beauty is not only what is in the jar, but where it is from, whom it benefits, and the story it tells. For decades, African beauty routines have used impressive traditions and nature’s best, including Ghana’s golden shea butter and Southern Africa’s fertile marula oil. But, as beauty becomes global, ethical beauty has to be the new standard. After all, what’s the use of beautiful skin if it harms people and the planet? The True Cost of Beauty It’s an uncomfortable truth: Some of the most popular skincare items like shea butter, baobab oil, and black soap are from Africa, yet the profits frequently don’t accrue to the women who manually harvest them. Major beauty companies slap “organic” or “natural” on their labels, but are they uplifting the very women who harvest these ingredients by hand? Are they compensating the laborers adequately? Are they supporting traditional methods, or just making a profit from them? Clean beauty is about shifting the way you think. It’s about knowing where your skincare is from, who made it, and whether they were treated fairly. It’s about celebrating African beauty, not just as an aesthetic, but as a movement.   A Blueprint for Ethical Beauty   Support Ethical Sourcing: Know Your Ingredients, Know Your People Your skincare should be as rich in story as the earth it comes from. Get behind brands who directly source their products from African cooperatives, where farmers and artisans receive fair compensation.  Be curious. Read labels. Be a conscious consumer. Honor Ancestral Knowledge: Our Grandmothers Knew First The West did not discover shea butter, our grandmothers did. Before there were beauty aisles, there were family recipes. Traditional African skincare relies on knowledge that has been passed down through generations. Rather than searching for the next lab-created miracle cream, utilize what has been proven effective for centuries. 2. Dismantle Eurocentric Beauty Standards Ethical beauty is not only product-related; it is also about representation. Dark skin, curly hair, and African features must be celebrated, not hidden. Patronize brands that celebrate and affirm diverse beauty. 3. Invest in Black-Owned Beauty From Lagos to London, Nairobi to New York, African and diaspora entrepreneurs are redefining beauty standards and ethical production. Invest in what you believe in. Beauty in Action   The discussion of ethical beauty is not just theoretical; it is currently being realized by innovative brands that invest in fair trade, sustainable practice, and cultural integrity. Not only are they reworking industry expectations, but they are also demonstrating to the world that luxury and responsibility can exist together as beauty. Hanahana Beauty, for example, is pioneering sustainable skincare, promoting fair trade practices, and empowering women shea producers in Ghana. Their focus on honesty and quality is creating a new gold standard for the beauty industry. Other innovative brands like 54 Thrones, LIHA Beauty, and Nolaskinsentials are showing that beauty can be ethical, luxurious, and strongly connected to African heritage. This isn’t just a trend, it’s a revolution. The next time you reach for that face mask or body butter, consider this: Is this beauty, or is this exploitation? For beauty isn’t only skin deep. It’s cultural. It’s ours.

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It’s Time to Wear Our Story: CelinaRob’s Ọngọ́ Ními Collection Honors Heritage and Identity

Fashion has evolved beyond mere clothing—it’s now a medium of empowerment, self-expression, and cultural preservation. CelinaRob, a Nigerian-born brand, embodies this transformation by creating pieces that tell stories, honor heritage, and celebrate identity.     With their latest collection, Ọngọ́ Ními—which means “Know Yourself” in Ijaw—CelinaRob invites us on a journey of self-awareness and reconnection to our roots. Inspired by the belief that understanding who we are brings us home, this collection reimagines the traditions that shaped us, merging past and present in an elegant, contemporary form.     The Ọngọ́ Ními collection is deeply influenced by the way our mothers cherished and preserved their most treasured fabrics, unveiling them only for significant occasions. CelinaRob honors this tradition by infusing timeless elegance with a modern perspective.   Each piece is crafted with cultural authenticity, drawing inspiration from different regions of Nigeria:   Handwoven Ikaki Fabric – Sourced from Port Harcourt, this fabric is crafted using age-old weaving techniques passed down through generations. Classic Silhouettes – A contemporary take on traditional styles worn by the women before us.   Rich, Earthy Tones – Reflecting the landscapes and deep cultural roots of the Niger Delta. Why This Collection is Special Beyond aesthetics, Ọngọ́ Ními is a celebration of resilience, history, and craftsmanship. Each piece carries the weight of identity, strength, and tradition, serving as a tribute to the rich heritage that shapes us. More than fashion, it is a commitment to sustainability and ethical production, spotlighting artisans like Mrs. Joy Joseph, a skilled weaver preserving her family’s craft and keeping local artistry alive. At its core, this collection is about women—made by them, for them, and in honor of the generations who paved the way before us. Through Ọngọ́ Ními, CelinaRob reminds us that fashion is more than fabric—it’s a reflection of who we are, where we come from, and the stories we carry forward. Disover more masterpiece by CelinaRob here on Instagram and shop the collection here